Here’s everything you need to know about the big day and wedding weekend — times, places, and where the party’s at.

Friday October 10th, 2025

7:30 PM Welcome Drinks @ TBD

We had a last minute issue with our venue and are quickly sourcing a replacement in the area. Regardless, we’ll find a place to land for those who want to hang out to join us for a libation before the main event. 

Saturday October 11th, 2025

3:30 PM Arrival Time

Grab a drink, a seat, and settle in for the ceremony

4:00 PM Ceremony Begins

We have BBQ to eat and drinks to drink, so we will be starting promptly at 4:00 PM

5:00 PM Cocktail Hour

Have a drink, (or two!) and take photos while you’re all dressed up looking your best. We’ll have the mansion open for self guided tours around the main floor and grounds. You definitely do not want to miss the amazing detail inside.

*Please note that stiletto type heels will damage the original floors and are not permitted inside the mansion. Enjoy comfy shoes, that’s an order 😉 Children under the age of 12 are not permitted to roam free in the home, so please respect the owner’s wishes.

6:30 PM Dinner

We are having our favorite: BBQ. Enjoy what St. Louis is known for, but don’t fill up too much before the dance party begins.

7:30-10:30 PM Drinks & Dancing

Wear comfortable shoes (or none) and get ready to get down. Coeli and Graham love to listen to music and party, so it’s going to be a blast. Get ready!