1. If your invite is lost in the mail, I’m so very sorry. You are still invited if you got a save-the-date, we didn’t change the guest list. If you get a sec, drop any food allergies/song requests in the RSVP form and we’ll see you there. We have plenty of food/seats for everyone.
   Wax seals were the down fall of the save-the-dates, and oversized envelopes [even with careful USPS guidance] were the downfall of the invites. I clearly need to enlist the help of Chase’s marketing team because they NEVER lose those million credit card offer post cards–but important mail? Dunzo. Please don’t take it out on Graham, this one’s on me.
2. We are having a ‘welcome’ party on Friday at 7:30, the time and date’s been on the ‘Day Of’ page, for months but in case you didn’t know, now you do! We’ll be at Schlafly Bottleworks in Maplewood–NOT the downtown Taproom. Please double check your maps/Uber instructions because we don’t want you at the wrong location. The Maplewood location has plenty of parking, is central to where everyone’s staying, and they’re letting us have their tour tasting room called the “Crown Room’ so you can try all their delicious brews.
3. Please wear comfortable shoes, some of this is in grass, some is in a house where we can’t have high heels–so just wear your best Air Force 1’s/Dunks/Sambas–whatever–and just be comfortable and not proverbially “stuck in the mud”.
4. The vibes are low key, family backyard BBQ. We’re listening to reggae, yacht rock, and sippin’ crispy boys in the sun. So be ready to have fun and enjoy the atmosphere. Graham and I have always wanted something more laid back, fun, and intimate with our close friends and family so the event will reflect that. Go play corn hole or play with paper airplanes or drool over the insane woodwork in the house–dealer’s choice.
5. We have SO many musicians attending and we’re trying to ‘hit’ all the hits at the reception. So if you have requests, make them now so we can make sure to get to them. Here’s the form for your convenience but if you put it on your RSVP, I have that captured too (we love a spreadsheet!).

If you need anything, shoot me an email and we’ll sort it out–we can’t wait to see you!

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Love,

Coeli